Having a Ritual Done for You

What is magic? Magic or spell casting is energy manipulation. That is what I am affecting, directing and changing when I cast a spell. And, this is why you see changes in a situation when you have a spell cast for you or cast one yourself.

How long will it take to see change? Unfortunately, I cannot give you a definite answer on this because every situation is different. You might think that a spell is just a spell and if it works with one person in one week, it should work like that for everyone.  However, energy work, while based on scientific knowledge of energy patterns and how our thoughts affect that energy, is complicated because of the many variables at play in a situation. In my experience I have seen spells manifest in a few hours while others take weeks or months.

What about love spells? Love spells are the most complicated of all spell work because we are dealing with highly complex situations. Under the best of circumstances, relationships take work, patience, understanding, communication and a constant balance between two people. There are fights, fears, miscommunications and struggles even in relationships where the individuals have been together a long time and have a healthy relationship. Some of the misconceptions around love work are:

  • Expectations that a spell will “fix” the person they love or are interested in and basically change their whole personality to suit their needs. This isn’t going to happen. Yes, a spell can restore communication, inspire feelings of love (which are different than truly loving someone), soften hurts and remove doubts and fears. But, if a person is an abuser, a narcissist, a sociopath, a psychopath or is just a lousy individual, no spell work will permanently change them. At best you will get a temporary change in their actions but it won’t last very long.
  • Expectations that a spell will remove all the hurdles to a committed relationship. I see this especially in relationship where one person is going through a divorce or has just broken up with someone. The person wanting the spell is ready for a relationship now, but they are unwilling to allow for the process of the divorce for their intended. A divorce is a long and painful process, especially when children are involved and you can’t rush it along with a spell. Even breakups that don’t involve a divorce are difficult. You can do spell work to keep the energy flowing towards the new relationship, but a great deal of patience will be required (up to 2 years in the case of divorce).
  • The desire and belief that you can make yourself the most important person in someone’s life to the exclusion of their children, parents and other responsibilities. Real love that lasts has boundaries and allows for each person in the relationship to have their own life and a way for both parties to meet their responsibilities. If you need to be so important to someone that they shun all other responsibilities to the detriment of others or their employment than you need to examine why you need that. A healthy, balanced person does not need that from another person.

What should I do while I’m waiting for the spell to manifest? First of all, try not to worry. I know this can be very difficult. You wouldn’t be asking for help if you weren’t worried and many situations are downright scary. If you cannot set aside your worry then I recommend finding something else to keep you busy for a while.  Start a new exercise program, take up a hobby, create a piece of art, read a book you just can’t put down, watch funny movies.  If you are having financial troubles and have a money spell going, go through every bit of income you have, write down all your debts to the penny and begin to work on a budget for yourself and start to examine where you can cut back and save. Work on constructive solutions for your problem.  This is the best way to see the biggest results from your spell.  With the energy work happening, road will open, solutions will show themselves and things will begin to happen in your favor.

What if nothing happens from my spell work? This usually does not happen in most work, however, in love work some relationships are just not meant to be.  Additionally, sometimes the person we love is so damaged there is no repairing them.  I know this can be very hard to accept, but that is just the way it is. If your spell does not manifest it generally means there is something better for you - a better job opportunity or a better path and you need to remain open to that. 

I hope this gives you a better understanding of magic and spell work. It truly works or I would not have been using it for myself for over 20 years and I certainly wouldn’t continue to offer it as a service to others for going on 5 years now.  Most of my business is repeat customers because they have benefitted from my work in the past or new clients who are referred to me by word of mouth.